the difference between psychotherapy and coaching
Coaching (also known as counseling before psychotherapy was invented) is couched in the perspective of knowing you don't have to do it, and yet you are aware of wanting to. And also aware that there's more that you "want to do and are not doing," than there is of what you "want to do and actually do." So the function of coaching is built-in to this perception that we are not here because you "need" to be. We are here because you want to be. I like to call it a luxury.